Mommy, where is Germany

One of many great questions that the kids ask. Even better than that are their prayers. Levi has a routine prayer that he like to pray. He likes to "pray fast". He recites his prayer so quickly that to me it is totally incomprehensible.' Thankfully, I memorized this prayer of his when he used to "pray slow". It goes like this... Thank you for me, Michaelyn, Chloe, Lilija Gideon and Gabriel James. Thank you for Dad and Mom. Thank you for Christopher, Harmony and Dustin, Larry and Gramma Vivian. Please help us and them. And thank you for mom's headache to go away. Amen."

I think that the reference to my headache is from after my wisdom tooth extraction. I had a lovely bruise on my face and I must have complained about all of the pain that I was in. Levi referred to my bruise as my headache. Praise God, the bruise has been gone for about 5 weeks and we are still thankful!

Lately he has added some whipped cream to the top of his sweet prayers. It goes something like this... "And thank you that Dad can be out of the Army. And that he doesn't have to go to Germany." Kids really know how to pray.

So far, God has not answered this prayer with a yes. We are in a feeble and human way trying to put all of our faith and hope in Him. We know that this is not difficult for God and yet we will keep Him in His place as God and allow Him (as if we could stop Him) to do according to His will.

Please pray for our hearts to remain soft. Please pray for us to give God our lonely broken hearts. His word says that He is near to the brokenhearted. Please pray that I will learn to become a true Christian to my children (i.e. model and possess some of the character and love that I daily lecture them about). Please pray that we will be reunited again soon and that God will break the contract that we, regretfully, entered into.

Also, please keep our friends Andrew and Cassidy Harper in your prayers. Andrew is deployed in Iraq and he and Cassidy will be apart for Christmas. Please pray for their safety and that the days for them will pass very quickly.

God Bless you

Being a mother of six is a big job...

Being a mother of six is a big job. At the end of each day I am covered from head to toe with laundry lint, smudged kisses, spit up, dried cereal, muddy shoe prints, splatter from cooking dinner, crusty nose slime, diaper pins, phonics flash cards, whiny kids, ketchup, dust bunnies, peanut butter, sweat and tears, and coffee stains (for my sanity). I smell funny too. I cannot handle this job alone, at the end of each day my husband is covered with “the bacon”, paper cuts, hug prints, baby shampoo, tooth paste, missing baby socks, “why Daddy?s”, bills, motor oil, grass clippings, smudged kisses, and coffee stains (for his sanity). He smells too, just a little better than me.

It is such a blessing to have my husband at home. He has worked very hard to complete to paperwork for the Dependency Discharge. Praise God! It was submitted today. We are praying for a quick approval. This would definitely be a miracle. Well, if not a miracle, it is highly improbable (at least according to Michael's Commander). I thank God for all of you for your prayers. I am so humbled and blessed that you have brought our needs before the Lord.

We are also very grateful that so many friends wrote letters to accompany our letters. During Michael's absence, I was unaware of the huge burden that I was under. It was only about a week after michael returned that I felt the relief of the weight that I had been under. While he was gone, I didn't see the impact of this on my appearance. I don't think that I mutated* (see note below) into something sci-fi or anything, but to those who know me, I looked stressed (or worse). When I was first reviewing the supporting letters, I was too emotional to read them. I had totally spent myself to try to take care of all of the affairs at home. I couldn't handle it. I failed. I knew it was true, but I did not want to accept it.

I am coming to grips with my failure. Michael has reassured me again and again that I did not fail. I know that it is true. Everything fell apart on my watch. One day I was especially discouraged about it...
Let me back up a little. Last year I read a book called The Lies Women Believe, and the Truth that Sets Them Free. I decided to write down some of the lies that I believe and then write the truth beneath it. Example Lie - "I have a right to be angry" Truth - "He that is slow to anger is better than the might, and he that rules his spirit than he that takes a city" Proverbe 16:32. I have several of these posted conspicuously in my house. Back to my story...
I was having a really hard moment and Michael found me hiding in the girls' bedroom and brought me a note that said this: Lie - "I failed my family while my husband was away" Truth - "I was not designed to manage my family alone. My husband has complete trust and faith in me. He believes that I am doing a great job."

So, I now believe, I did the best that I could (not perfect, just my best). All of my best efforts did not accomplish all of the tasks that needed done. No one can do it alone. God carried me. I think that this is why I did not feel the burden that I was carrying. God carried me, by his grace, the gut level tear-filled prayers of us and our dearest friends and family. I know that God is gracious and compassionate. There were times that I didn't even pray. I just tried to survive. Our God is amazing. It will take eternity and longer to discover and enjoy His limitless pleasures and fullness of joy.

I was a failure. I guess I looked like a failure too. I hope that God was glorified in my weakness.

Sunshine

* (mutated) Every now and again someone will say, "You have six children? (shocked expressions and dropped jaws) Wow you look great!" I don't know what they think. After the 3rd or 4th you start to grow extra limbs, your face becomes permanently deformed, and you drool and shake involuntarily? I am very pleased and relieved to mention that recently I met two women, each of whom have twelve (12) birth children. They are two of the most beautiful and youthful looking moms that I have ever me. Lord, let it be me too! :)

Not by bread alone

Our joy is great! Michael made it home on Thursday the 23rd of October. His flight arrived an hour later than expected. The children and I arrived to the airport on time which also was unexpected! (We sometimes affectionately refer to ourselves as the Late-merts.) With an hour to spare, we set out to window shop. As a seasoned veteran of parenting a half-dozen, I quickly decided that "window shopping" would turn into "touching" and that it would only get worse from there. We saw a little food court and decided to get a smoothie...

Being the frugal financial genius that I am, I quickly noted that it was a much better deal to order the large size and share, than to order six individual drinks. I knew that just one drink may cause sharing "issues" and opted for two instead. Now, on most days, the Ismert little people can share a beverage and take turns. I had neglected to take into account that it was 8ish pm, and we were all little balls of anticipation to see daddy. Mommy was able to keep the whining and complaining to a minimum, and there was some enforced sharing going on. Part of everyone's frustration was the difficulty of sucking the thick smoothie through the straw. This was compounded by the flattened ends of the straws, due to being bitten by cute little Ismerts. Have you ever tried to drink smoothie through the end of a flattened straw?

Mom to the rescue! We sauntered on over to the bakery counter to add a bit of sugar to the situation. We all picked out a donut, then someone said "I have to go to the bathroom." And then everyone said "I have to go to the bathroom." So, the four walking little people, the two youngest in the double-wide jogger stroller, and I found the nearest restroom. Miraculously, the jogger fit through the doorway. Ten minutes or so later, with empty bladders and freshly washed hands, we found a seat to enjoy our donuts. (I must mention here, that our precious brood of mini-people behaved very well, all things considered.)

Next, we were off to await Daddy's arrival! It was great fun to watch and wait as all of the arriving travelers walked by. We knew that Daddy would arrive at any moment. Excitement filled the air. Michael sent a text message that the plane had landed. Totally out of character for me, I replied "Sorry we are running late. We'll be there as soon as we can." I am sure that I smiled like a cat caught with her hand in the fish bowl. I couldn't hide my delight at feeling so clever. (Michael has to roll his eyes at home as I laugh uncontrollably at my own witty remarks!) When we spotted Michael he was walking while attempting to type a reply message on his cell phone. My little scheme had worked. Surprise! We were there. We spotted him first. The children were ecstatic! Daddy was finally home.

It took a few days after Michael arrived for us all to unwind. I didn't realize how much tension I was feeling while he was gone. I didn't have time to think about it. I had to keep going, no time to really stop and think. I feel so much better now. My mouth has healed quite a bit. (Thank you Jesus!) I don't feel an extra "load" of responsibilities that I am not used to carrying. Michael has let me sleep extra, almost every morning, and I am beginning to feel better rested. My best friend came back. The younger Ismerts seem more at peace. Thank you God for answering our prayer.

I mentioned in an earlier post that Michael may not be able to stay the six weeks that we had planned. After much prayer and attempting to wait out some glitches, God has provided a special duty assignment locally at a recruiting station. Michael gets to stay a while (looks like the full six weeks!) He has been working very diligently, during business hours and sometimes later, to prepare for requesting the Hardship Discharge. (I'll ask Michael to post on that issue). We are praying that God will provide this and spare us a nearly two-year-long separation! Please stand in prayer with us!

There was a time, just before Michael came home that I had lost hope. I had faith in God's ability. I was missing the "substance of things unseen." All of the news from Germany seemed so bad. It was bad. I almost couldn't even pray. I did pray, but I prayed without hope. Thank you so much for praying with me and for me. (Jens, I know that all of those prayers were the only things holding Michael and I and the children up.) Thank you to all for prayers, company, and the endless supply of helpers. Oh, what wonderful helpers! I could not have done it alone. I'm so thankful to God.

5 A father of the fatherless, a defender of widows,
Is God in His holy habitation.
6 God sets the solitary in families;
He brings out those who are bound into prosperity;
But the rebellious dwell in a dry land. Psalm 68:5-6

If it had not been for His word, I would have totally lost heart. This time, like no other in my life, the Psalms were such comfort to me. I truly did not live by bread alone...

He'll be coming o'r the Atlantic when he comes

I guess I should leave room for an "act of God" to alter these plans... It looks like, even now, God is acting especially for us! I just booked a flight for Michael to come home October 25. Praise God!

More to come later.
Sunshine